Top 8 Reasons Couples Can't Resolve Conflict On Their Own


Top 8 Reasons Couples Can't Resolve Conflict On Their Own


Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, but it doesn't have to be detrimental. By understanding the top 8 reasons couples struggle to resolve conflicts on their own, you can take proactive steps to address these challenges.

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Life rarely goes as planned. Whether in our personal lives, relationships, or careers, unexpected challenges often force us to adapt and find alternative paths. Developing a Plan B mentality is crucial to navigating these twists and turns, allowing us to thrive rather than just survive.


Here are three strategies that will help manage difficult emotions:

  • Understanding the uncontrollable
  • Develop a Plan B mentality
  • Become aware of and reframe your negative thoughts


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